Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. I saw a meme on Instagram that went like this-'The movie Dirty Dancing came out in 1987 and was set in 1963, so if remade in 2026 it would be set in 2002. Now I need a little lie down in a dark room for a while." 

Time is crazy isn't it? So...what were you up to in the year 2002? 

In 2022, I was teaching at the high school level.  My oldest daughter was beginning her high school years as a freshmen and my youngest daughter was in the seventh grade.  I was going to games watching oldest daughter cheer and this is when youngest daughter started her interest in playing volleyball and basketball at the middle school level. 

I think 9-11 was still having an impact on me.  I still had a house phone!! and didn't leave the house with a cell phone.

2. "Me? I'm scared of everything..." What's something that scares you that you'd like to try anyway? 

Canoeing   I am not a fan of water, at all!!!  I had an experience when I was in the fifth grade and have never gotten over my fear of water..  Yes, I love to go on boat rides, sit by the pool, go to the ocean, etc. but I don't really swim. Canoeing being an outdoor activity will give my mind a break plus some exercise.  BUT my mind would probably be racing the entire time...wonder if there is such a thing as a two person canoe?

3. Watermelon-yay or nay? Which melon is your favorite-watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew. Of the watermelon food/beverages listed which would you say yes to...

watermelon salsa~watermelon feta salad~watermelon sorbet~

a watermelon Jolly Rancher~a watermelon margarita 

I love watermelon!!!!  I could eat it everyday.  How about a Watermelon margarita!

4. August 12th is National Middle Child Day. Are you a middle child? If not, where do you fall in the birth order in your family of origin? Do you think this has influenced your personality? Elaborate. 

I am the oldest.  It was just my brother and I and my brother is two years younger than me.  I think being the oldest does influence your personality.  I was often expected to be dependable and set an example for my brother.  Being  the oldest, put a lot of pressure on me because I wanted to do things the right way.

5. Would you rather talk to everyone at a crowded party for a short time, or have a significant conversation  with two people? Explain. 

I would rather talk to everyone at a crowded party.  I would want all to be included and that would make me want to say 'hi' to all.  Also, I am a curious person, so I would want to have a little conversation with someone that I might not be close to.  And if I only have a significant conversation with two people, I would feel like I was missing out on something.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Our first day of school was Tuesday.  I don't know how it is going to go because I have to rush home, feed my little dog, and head out to watch grandson play football.  I know I will be dead tired when I get home around 8:30pm.

I did go Saturday to watch grandson play his first jamboree game.  I traveled two hours to watch an hour long game, but grandson is worth it.  I just pray for safety for all the football players.  I am a huge fan of football, but I don't really enjoy watching grandson play.  Football is nerve wrecking when I have to watch him play.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!

I have to tell ya'll this!!!  The first day of school went smoothly till around 2:30.  Storms were predicted around this time.  The weather was awful!!  Tornado warnings started coming in.  Two schools about 10 miles from my school were shelter in place.  Because buses from the other two schools were late, this made the buses late coming to our school.  When the busses arrived, the students were dismissed ONLY to be called back to 4th block...WHY?  A skunk was on our front porch!!  Now, you can't make this up!!

Wednesday Hodgepdge

1. What's something on your August calendar you're looking forward to? Or dreading if that's easier to answer. 

My August calendar is filling up with sports!!  Oldest grandson starts his football season on Saturday.  I love watching him play, but I don't like watching him play (dreading it) because I am afraid of him getting hurt!  I will be doing a lot of traveling by myself which I dread going to these far away places. To me, football is a dangerous sport, but since grandson loves it, I will go watch and have a lot of anxiety.  The twins will still be playing flag football, which is my favorite kind of football.

Teachers began going back to school yesterday.  We have so many new changes, that it is kinda a dread feeling.

I am looking forward to a birthday party this weekend!

2. August 5th is National Oyster Day...do you partake? How do you feel about pearls? 

I will not partake oysters on Wednesday, August 5th even though I love oysters.  I have a couple strands of pearls from my daughters that was given me to wear on their wedding days. These pearls carry emotional meaning because of the important occasion. 

3. Tell us about a time when you felt like 'the world was your oyster'. 

In 2021, on was on a girls' trip in Tybee Island.  My hub had passed away in 2018 and my oldest daughter had passed away in 2020.  AND in 2020, was Covid so I was alone and this was difficult for me.  While in Tybee Isalnd, I received a call from a principal I had never worked for before.  She was calling to offer me a part-time job.  I would teach Monday-Wednesday, no bus duty, no ticket duty, but lesson plans were required.  I talked it over with my girls' trip gang; listing pros and cons  When I got home, I called the principal and accepted the job.  This was an opportunity for me that I never saw coming.  AND if I didn't want to continue teaching I could quit.  I am going on my 6th year and so thankful for this opportunity because I am definitely not a home body person.

4. Trip Advisor lists seven islands in the US that require no passport (for US citizens). If you're answering today from outside the US you'll still need to produce yours. An-y-way, have you been to any of the seven? Let's pretend you get an all expense paid trip to one this month...which one do you choose and why? 

Catalina Island California~Martha's Vineyard Massachusetts~Mackinac Island Michigan~Key West Florida~South Padre Island Texas~or Kauai Hawaii

I haven't been to any of these.  However, I would love to go to Martha's Vineyard in Massachusetts.  It is a combination of the beautiful coastal scenery and has a fascinating history of African American and Native American cultural history.  I can picture myself walking the streets, eating ice cream, and just watching the boats come and go.

5. Sylvia Plath is credited with the following- 

"August rain: the best of the summer gone, and the new fall not yet born. The odd uneven time."

Agree or disagree? In other words, how do you feel about this month? 

I agree.  August is an in between month.  It is still hot...but the nights are getting chilly.  It is still summer and fall hasn't happened yet, but you know fall is coming.  August is the odd uneven time."

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Last night, I volunteered to help with Community Night Out.  Free school supplies were given out, free food, Canine demonstrations, and live music.  This was sponsored by the police and sheriff department, It  was a great turn out, but I came home really tired and wet!!!  The torrential downpour hit around 7pm.  

A back-to-school gift from one of my Bible Group ladies.  So sweet of her.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!!!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. Do your goals and dreams energize or exhaust you? Elaborate. 

Definitely energize me!!   Because it give me motivation and hope.  Dreams and goals give me hope for the future.  And being a teacher it give me motivation to keep going when I am exhausted...I see the end result goal!

2. July 23rd is national lemon day. Are you a fan of this flavor? What's a favorite dish or beverage you enjoy that calls for lemons? 

I am a fan of lemon and I love lemon water and lemon pie.

3. "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade"...is At this something you're pretty good at managing? Have you had to do this recently? If so tell us about it. 

 At the onset, I am not good at this.  After a few minutes, I am ready to make lemonade.  A plan fell through a few weeks ago, but I discovered a new trip...so this worked out.

Romans 8:28  "And we knows that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."

4. Something you love that is lemon yellow in color? 

Sunflowers!! and corn on the cob!

5. How would you describe your attention to detail? 

I overlook details which causes me to not only have to go back and redo something or reread something, but I miss the the small detail which is important.   I would definitely benefit from being a more detail-oriented person!

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

A group of us went to Wintergreen for a few days.  It was still hot, but not as hot in the mountains.  We rented a cute little Airbnb. 

We visited 4 wineries...

One winery had horses to rent and you were able to ride to some of the different wineries.

I felt sorry for the poor horses in the heat.

It was a great few days just relaxing, enjoying the scenery, and 'catching up' with friends.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

From this Side of the Pond

1. "Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability." Sam Keen

Do you feel less guilty relaxing in July than you do in January? Elaborate. 

July is summer!!  Summer means longer days and outdoor activities and  is a time for me to slow down. I do accomplish some deep house cleaning. January is a fresh start!! A time to start doing what I put off in July!!

2. What's a telltale sign you're upset? 

If hub was still alive, he would definitely tell you I become too quiet or only give a one word answer.  When someone gets me upset, I just walk away from that person. 

3. July 16th is National AI Day. What are your general thoughts and/or experiences with AI? Have you purposely used it? Does it excite you, scare you, or worry you? What do you see as a benefit? How about something relating to AI you see as a negative? 

I haven't had much experiences with AI nor have I used it.  AI scares me. AI is helping people with disabilities improving their accessibility and probably helping in the medical fields. 

What I see/fear as a negative is privacy-how much of my personal information is leaked. I think the system can be used for phishing emails and people will trust AI too much.

4. You're invited to a summer pot luck and are asked to bring an appetizer, salad/side, or dessert. Which category do you go for and what are you bringing? 

Definitely a store bought dessert!!!  Either cookies, brownies, or a pie from the Deli.

5. It wouldn't be summer without___________________. 

Humidity or a few thunderstorms.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Speaking of thunderstorms, Man!! I had one too many from last Wednesday till Sunday.  The thunder shook my windows and the rain was pelting down!  I didn't lose electricity (thank God), but I did lose internet service for a couple of days, which also meant no TV.  However, I am not too much of a TV person, but I have taken a liken to soccer so missed some of the games.  A few people were evacuated because of the flooding and the EMS really  came to their rescue.

Sun has been shining brightly since yesterday and the skies are blue.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. What's something you enjoy now that your younger self would never have appreciated? 

Simple pleasures....a cup of coffee, a phone call/text from a friend, walking my dog,  establishing healthy boundaries, and spending alone time with God.

2. What was peaceful about today? 

I am writing this on a Tuesday evening.  I didn't do much today because yesterday (Monday) I had a lot of yard work to do and at my age this wore me out!  So today (Tuesday), I just had some R & R.  I went to the Farmer's Market for some fresh veggies, made chicken salad, and did some ironing (I am the only one who still irons?)

The grandsons are at the beach, and I am beginning a new book Frozen River.  I love sitting outside and I was able to do this.

 

3. It's National Blueberry Day (July 8). Will you celebrate?  You can have one of the following right now-a slice of blueberry pie, a warm blueberry muffin, or a stack of blueberry pancakes...which do you choose?

I keep blueberries in my refrigerator.  Usually, I put them in yogurt or sometimes just a grab a handful as I pass through the kitchen.

I would choose blueberry pie!

This or that-blueberries or raspberries? blueberries or strawberries? 

Blueberries over raspberries...strawberries over blueberries.  I haven't found many good, ripe strawberries lately.

4. Do you need a break? From what? 

Yes, from worrying about things that I can't control!!

ALSO, the HEAT!!! Which happened Monday.  Last week was HOT and I mean like 102 or higher degrees!!

5. What has surprised you most about getting older? 

Besides time going by too fast, I don't feel as old as I expected to feel.  Yes, there are things my mind says I can do (like walk for 40 minutes without stopping) but my body says 'take a rest' but I am still grateful what this 67 year old body can do!

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I didn't realize how much I like soccer.  I have been watching the World Cup and man I didn't realize how physically and mentally demanding this sport is.  The players are constantly in motion and making split-second decisions. I hate the USA lost, though.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. What do you love most about your country? 

I value different aspects of the" United States.  First, the freedoms protected  by the Constitution, the beautiful landscapes, and the volunteerism and community service.   The freedom of religion, freedom of speech (even if you disagree with the opinions of others, etc.  America has beautiful landscapes: Grand Canyon National Park, Great Smokey Mountains. Grayson Highlands State Park, etc.  When disasters strike a community, fire, flood, hurricane, people still volunteer and donate not only items, but their time to help clean up mess.

2. Your favorite patriotic song? 

"God Bless the USA" by Lee Greenwood.  This song brings a tear to my eye everytime.

3. Red, white, or blue? Stars or stripes? Something you own besides a US flag with some combination of those colors or decorations as part of its design? 

I own a shirt with red, white, and blue with stars and a sweater with red, white, blue that has stars and stripes.

The shirt is worn on Memorial Day and the sweater I usually wear on our Veteran's Day Assembly at school.

4. What's one thing you want more of this summer: fun, rest, adventure, connection, quiet, or confidence? Elaborate.

 I want to do something fun!!  I feel like summer is quickly passing me by and I haven't really done anything fun.  Sure, I have been to many baseball games watching my grandsons play and this was fun...but I want more.  Trouble is...I really don't have anyone to do something fun with.  Most of my friends either are having health problems or their spouse is...so.  This is the first summer in about ten years, I haven't taken a trip or plan on taking a trip and this is weighing heavily on my mind.  Maybe something will come up in the next 5 weeks, because then it will be time to return to the brick and mortar building.

5. What was your ultimate, go-to summer activity when you were a kid? Do you still do any version of that today? If you answered yes, does participating in this activity as an adult make you feel like a kid?  

Camping in a friend's backyard.  We would plan for weeks the night of our  camp out.  We bought all the snacks weeks ahead of time.  When the night came, we were so excited.  Our parents helped us put up the tent, and we had a little campfire.   Bellies full of hotdogs, chips, and S'mores, we would go inside the tent and get in our sleeping bags and began telling ghost stories. Of course, there was a group of neighborhood boys who knew were were camping out and always tried to scare us!!  This was the fun part cause we knew who they were and what they were up to!   Early the next morning, we would drag our bodies back home and get in our bed for a few more hours.

No version of this today!!

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Monday, my Bible Study Women's Group finished the book,  Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table by Louie Giglio.  This book had me really thinking because I do let a lot of negative thoughts control my life.  I do have the power to control my mind, if I try.

The workbook was so good and made me really stop and ponder!!

A lady in our group made us the cutest July 4 little gifts with special treats.

We haven't thought about another book study, but if anyone has a good one, please share.

Have a great rest of the week, Safe Fourth of July, and Enjoy Life!!

Friday will be another trip around the sun for me!!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. Summer's here!  In the northern hemisphere anyway. If you're in the southern hemisphere substitute winter for the word summer. What do you love most about summer? What's your biggest summer pet peeve? 

What I love most about summer is having more daylight hours.  I love waking up to the sun shining through the windows; it just makes me happy.   I also enjoy sitting outside on my deck.  It is so peaceful except for the occasional hum of the heat pump. 

My biggest pet peeve would be when a beautiful day can become uncomfortable because of the high humidity.  Thankful, this hasn't happened yet!  Another pet peeve is seeing ticks!!

2. What song always reminds you of summer? 

"Kokomo" by the Beach Boys 

This got me thinking...Kokomo is an actual place in Indiana, but a fictional Caribbean place in the song lyrics, although the sound does mention Aruba, Jamaica, Bermuda, and the Bahamas.

3. What's something you remember about your childhood summers? Do you think kids today get to enjoy summer the way you did as a child? Elaborate. 

My childhood summers were great!!  My neighborhood was a tight knit place.  We all were like family.  We all would pitch in and help each other with chores so we could head outside.  We would play till dark...kick the can, catch fireflies in a jar, hide-n-seek, just fun times.  When I got older, I would go to Baltimore and spend the summer with my grandmother.  I loved going crabbing with my uncles!  I miss those Maryland Crabs!!

I don't think kids enjoy much of their summer.  My grandson, who I love dearly, played baseball until just a couple of weeks ago.  Now he is in basketball camp and football camp!!  Summer is supposed to be fun and I love sports, but too much of a good thing isn't fun anymore.  AND most kids would rather stay inside and watch TV or play video games.  I keep the grandkids on Tuesday, and I have taught them how to play volleyball without a net and badminton.  Do they grumble when I say time to go outside, YES, but once outside I hear those giggles while playing.

4. We celebrate Fathers Day on June 21st.

 Do you favor your dad in looks or temperament? Tell us something about your dad. Or your husband as a dad. Or a son/son-in-law as a dad. Or your grandpa. 

Many people say I favor in my dad in looks, I just can't see it.  This was on my wedding day, which if hub would have lived, we would have celebrated 45 years together on June 20th!

I do have my dad's temperament.  

My dad was a hard worker.  Family was very important to him.  He was kind, thought of others before himself, set clear boundaries, and was very supportive.  My dad passed away in 1984 at the age of 47.  I miss him dearly.

5. Let's wrap up with a summer this or that-

• flip flops or sandals
• beach or pool 
• watermelon or peaches
• shorts or sundress
• iced coffee or ice cold lemonade
• amusement park or water park

Flip flops, pool, watermelon, shorts (sundresses when school begins), cold lemonade, and amusement park

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I just don't understand people.  Saturday evening, I was at a friend's house eating dinner.  My phone kept pinging and pinging.  When I looked at my phone, I was in complete shock.  My step-son had honored his dad (my late hub) by posting the most ugly post about him.  My hub has been dead for 8 years, so why post something like this now?  I was so mad and hurt.  The comments I were receiving were wondering the same thing.  

Anyway, I waited till Tuesday to reach out to the insurance agency my step-son works for which was previously owned by my husband. I sent a nice letter explaining how disappointing this was and how the people in the community was just as upset as I was.  The only response I heard from the owner, was not an apology but the situation has been addressed and the post deleted.  

Anyway...it is what it is.  People love drama and want to hurt other people.

Have a great rest of the week and Enjoy Life!